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On the whole, Harry thought he was to be congratulated on his idea of hiding here. He was not, perhaps, very comfortable lying on the hot, hard earth but, on the other hand, nobody was glaring at him, grinding their teeth so loudly that he could not hear the news, or shooting nasty questions at him, as had happened every time he had tried sitting down in the living room to watch television with his aunt and uncle.

此外，你也可以选择适当地自我暴露

Almost as though this thought had fluttered through the open window, Vernon Dursley, Harry's uncle, suddenly spoke.

分享一些自己和对方相似的经历

¡Glad to see the boy's stopped trying to butt in. Where is he, anyway?¡

来引起对方的共鸣

¡I don't know,¡ said Aunt Petunia, unconcerned. ¡Not in the house.¡

要获得共鸣，不代表你和对方一定得是完全一致的背景

Uncle Vernon grunted.

比如，你们双方可能有不同的教育背景、情感经历，但是对家人的关注、对失去的焦虑是共通的，这些触动人心的共性点就可以拿来作为引起共鸣的突破口